Have you ever dared to believe that “YOU are accepted as YOU!!!” 🙂
What is it that stops you from letting yourself go with friends and family and telling them that you are a transvestite? I am not telling you to do this, I am just asking you the question………….
What if that certain barrier that stopped you from telling people this fact was lifted or removed and that you could tell anyone you wanted that you love to dress. That you desire to dress and that if you don’t dress you will explode with sadness and inability to actually be yourself.
Please indulge me and meditate with me. I intend to create a world for you to imagine that you are accepted by society, by loved ones and friends dear to you and that you can be as you want to be all of the time.
Find a place that is relaxing and either say these sentences to yourself in your head or aloud if you can………….
Please take a few deep breaths, relax into that chair, focus on the words you are saying and believe in every word that you say…………..
I am a good person
I am liked by my colleagues at work and loved by my friends at home
I am loved especially by my family.
I can achieve goals that I have set
I can lead an amazing life of things that I love to be and do.
I am me
I am good at being me
There is no one else like me
And I love that.
I love that because I am unique; there is no one like me because I am a perfect example of me.
I love being me.
People love me being me
People who cannot accept me as me have a choice to do so, however miss out on my uniqueness if they do not choose to accept who I am.
I accept me as me
I accept that I am not perfect in all eyes, but who is?
I understand that I cannot be accepted by all, however who can?
My life is great, my morals are set high and I expect to be treated as I treat others.
I do not hurt anyone and am kind and peaceful when I can be.
I am me
I am …………
Please just sit and go over the words a couple of times, thinking and believing in them as you say them to yourself.
And now I ask you to fill in the rest of the sentence for yourself:
To be totally and utterly accepted by society, friends and family would allow me to be………………..
If you could feel this every day, what would this do to your confidence? If you knew that you could walk out that door any way you wanted to dress and feel alive and accepted, how would that make you feel?
Could you do that do you think? How could you do that? I hear the “but” word coming from your mouth!!! 🙂
If you would like to talk about your confidence, or work on any issues or goals that you have set in the future and need assistance to achieve, or just want to by you, but not sure how to do that, give me a call or send me a mail and we can get together and start now!
Happy days being YOU! )
And of course Happy Halloween…….